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Do You Find Yourself Fighting to Listen? 5 Questions to Help You Re-Engage & Show People You Care

Leaning into a conversation to listen with great intentionality is one of the best ways to let people know you care about them. 

Self-focused individuals, on the other hand, make terrible listeners for one reason alone: they need to be the center of the conversation. Their stories and comments let everyone know they think they are the most important person in the room. This deflects a following versus attracting one. The casualty of such actions will always be the loss of influence. 

Because selfless people put themselves behind others, they make the other pers